We have all been told from time to time to lighten up, smile, be happy and think positive thoughts and everything will be OK! Law of attraction and blaha blaha.
When someone is hurting you hug them and tell them it will all be OK in the end. And we know it will, and so do they. But there is no need to rush it.
Sometimes someone says I don't think I can do this, and we reply of course you can stay positive. Because when your positive you can do anything! Right?
Why are people so scared about negative thoughts, I mean what if we really cant do anything? Or what is having a bit of self doubt from time to time just makes us human? Must of the things I have accomplished through my life have been through negativity, it makes me determined thinking I cannot do something.
And instead of having building up your hate inside you, release it in your thoughts from time to time.
After all it is a feeling and we need to acknowledge that.
As with all things, I believe balance is the key. Being a Libra I life after that statement.
Not every day are made for smiles, sometimes a smile is just not what you want to do. Sometimes you want to hate the world. As long as you just do it for a while and then get back to it again.
New research shows pessimism is on the rise. Often in life when you have been successful in something, you get over confident and expect to be successful again, forgetting how hard your worked for it. Times like this pessimism or "defensive pessimism" as its called will actually help you succeed again.
Either way at the end of the day you just have to keep it real. Create a balance, be prepared for negativity, and welcome positivity. Don't just have one or the other since they both complement each other. Its about being strategic, and use the two mindsets to your advantage. Recognizing the need of the situation. I mean can a person really be truly happy and smiling 100% of the time? And if they are, I don't want to be around when their bubble finally bursts!
2011 Germany was seen as the most positive nation in the world! Followed by Australia and Canada. The most negative was Irak, North-Korea and Pakistan. I think we can all understand why! Nothing against Germany but I found that a bit surprising, but good on them!
When someone is hurting you hug them and tell them it will all be OK in the end. And we know it will, and so do they. But there is no need to rush it.
Sometimes someone says I don't think I can do this, and we reply of course you can stay positive. Because when your positive you can do anything! Right?
Why are people so scared about negative thoughts, I mean what if we really cant do anything? Or what is having a bit of self doubt from time to time just makes us human? Must of the things I have accomplished through my life have been through negativity, it makes me determined thinking I cannot do something.
And instead of having building up your hate inside you, release it in your thoughts from time to time.
After all it is a feeling and we need to acknowledge that.
As with all things, I believe balance is the key. Being a Libra I life after that statement.
Not every day are made for smiles, sometimes a smile is just not what you want to do. Sometimes you want to hate the world. As long as you just do it for a while and then get back to it again.
New research shows pessimism is on the rise. Often in life when you have been successful in something, you get over confident and expect to be successful again, forgetting how hard your worked for it. Times like this pessimism or "defensive pessimism" as its called will actually help you succeed again.
Either way at the end of the day you just have to keep it real. Create a balance, be prepared for negativity, and welcome positivity. Don't just have one or the other since they both complement each other. Its about being strategic, and use the two mindsets to your advantage. Recognizing the need of the situation. I mean can a person really be truly happy and smiling 100% of the time? And if they are, I don't want to be around when their bubble finally bursts!
2011 Germany was seen as the most positive nation in the world! Followed by Australia and Canada. The most negative was Irak, North-Korea and Pakistan. I think we can all understand why! Nothing against Germany but I found that a bit surprising, but good on them!
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